So you are going to a wedding this weekend and you want to bring your camera and take some great pictures for the bride and groom. You’ll catch some moments that the professional won’t get and present them as a present to the bride and groom. Sounds great right?! Yes, it does. It doesn’t always work out that way though, follow these simple rules to increase your chances of getting great shots and not annoying the pro
As a guest with a camera, you don’t bother me at all, in fact, I love you. I think the more people taking pictures all the time, the more appreciation people have for good photography and the more the market as a whole grows. But sometimes you do cross the line

Guest Photographers
Things to do to get great photos:
Killer tip 1 – Look for emotion
The most engaging aspect of any wedding photo is the emotion that it conveys. As a guest, you know the intricacies of different relationships and can spot when special moments might happen or are happening. Look for those moments, get in close, and let fly.
Killer tip 2 – Focus on relationships. Get Close
The pro photographer will be focused on the bride and groom and the immediate family for most of the day. While they are doing that it’s a great time to get happy shots of your friends and family at the wedding. The guest photos I see on facebook that I think are special, are the ones that guests set up and take themselves of each other doing fun, crazy things. Your familiarity with other guests can help you get photos the main photographer will likely not be able to get.
Killer tip 3 – Get a great seat for the ceremony, and stay there
Get a good seat in the aisle of the ceremony and stay there. Shoot from the aisle. Shoot the other guests, shoot the church. Just don’t lean out into the aisle too much, especially if the main photographer is behind you. You don’t want your head to be in the brides dress in that great shot of the ceremony!
Killer tip 4 – Stalk the light
Great light makes great photos. If you have a DSLR, you’ll be better able to take great advantage of the light. A good strategy for images that will set you apart is to find great light, take a few test photos to nail your exposure and then just wait for cool things to happen there and snap away.
Killer tip 5 – Reception dancing photos
Your energy and party mood will help you get great photos of the dancing crowd! Take fun shots of your friends dancing. Set the lens as wide as you can and hold the camera up and take shots.
Killer tip 6 – Bounce that flash
After the sun sets, if you have a DSLR or other camera with a speedlight. Look up. If the ceiling is a bright color, white or off-white work best, just point your flash up at the ceiling and shoot away. The flash will turn the ceiling into a big soft box and create a nice, soft, even light. If you can set your camera aperture and shutter speed manually, you can experiment. Try setting your shutter speed to 1/30 of a second and the widest aperture you can. 4 or 5.6 etc… (lower number is larger aperture). This will go through your batteries slower and also make your flash not as bright.
Also, here are some things you might want to avoid doing:
Rule 1. – Don’t jump in front of us for ‘The Shot’
At a wedding a couple of years ago, my 2nd shooter was assigned to cover the groom’s reaction to the bride while I photographed the bride walking down the aisle with her father. The bride called and said there was a great photo of the grooms smile that a guest had taken and did we have a similar picture. I went back through the pictures my second shooter had taken, and there was a shot of just before the groom smiling, then three pictures of the back of a woman’s head – yes, it was the guest who took the picture of the groom’s smile. So she had jumped in front of my 2nd photographer to get the shot and kept her from getting the shot for the bride and groom. Jumping in front of the pro will not win any popularity contests.
Rule 2. – Don’t engage us in conversations when something important is about to happen
Even when it looks like we’re not busy. We are. We have to check timelines, look for light, change lenses, cards and batteries and make sure we’re in position in plenty of time for the next shot. We’re not brushing you off by being brusque, we’re not arrogant, we just need to keep our mind on the task at hand. Usually I make it a point to try and chat with all the guest photographers for a few minutes if I can. If I don’t make it, it’s not that I wouldn’t enjoy talking with you (I love talking about gear) so please don’t take it personally.
Rule 3 – Wait until we’re done with the formals before snapping
When a group of people is getting their picture taken, it’s important that they look where the photographer is asking them to look. If they look away, then the shot is ruined. When guests are taking pictures of the same group, grandma isn’t sure if she should be looking at the photographer OR her grand daughter who just got a new camera. Result: Great family shot with grandmas eyes looking like zombie eyes because she’s looking off to the left.
Most pros now accept the fact that guests want pictures of the formals and will allow you to take a few shots when we are done, but many times we just don’t have the time. The family formals are usually pressed for time and any slide in the schedule gets taken directly out of the portrait time.
That’s about it! Keep to these rules and you’ll be snapping great pictures that the bride and groom will love – and keeping the photographer happy
~rc